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The Listener - - Vol. 2 No. 2 - - August, 2004
“Listening is a skill that most people feel comes naturally and therefore it is rarely taught. In reality, listening well is a skill that must be learned and that can be quite difficult.” - - The Hun School of Princeton (N.J.)
Sometimes, salespeople (and others) have “happy ears.”
We hear what we want to hear, and our responses sometimes reflect a misunderstanding.
If we don’t let the customers have their say, we may miss important sales clues.
“A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while he knows something.” - - Wilson Mizner
Importance of Listening:
If a salesperson wants to:
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understand the customers’ real issues
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demonstrate genuine empathy to them
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position himself/herself to present the “right” benefits
then one sure way to do that is by “active listening.”
Active listening is not for show, nor should it be insincere. It is the best way for salespeople to get to the root cause of the customers’ “pain.”
Real life example of the successful use of listening:
Joe was looking to provide his offerings to a previously-intractable prospect. He knew that he was up against a very tough customer, but Joe was known for his persistence.
After having ascertained that this client did, indeed, have need for Joe’s offerings, he attempted a trial close” to see what the obstacles/objections/concerns might be - experienced sales people wait and hope for these!
(The famous sales trainer and motivator, Zig Ziglar, calls objections, “A salesman's best friend.”
Why? Because if you get past them, the next logical step is closing the sale!)
Sure enough, the prospect raised his concern:
Joe, if I buy your offerings, it’s really going to cost me.
(At this point, salespeople not adept at listening skills might have jumped in with their response to a PRICE objection.)
Since Joe was fresh from sales training class, he answered, “Cost you, John? What do you mean, ‘cost you’?”
John replied, “It may cost me some prestige here, Joe. It might hurt my image.
My company is very well known for its NIH (not invented here) philosophy. As you know, Joe, we provide just about everything for ourselves – hardware, software, products, services, etc.
If I were to go to an outside firm for offerings like yours, Joe, it could really make me look bad.
Joe thought about this for a moment, then he responded:
“John, let me make sure that I understand you. Would you consider my offerings if you thought there was a possibility that they would make you look better or smarter?”
Yes, I suppose I would”, John replied.
Joe: “John, does your VP hold weekly/periodic meetings with you and the other managers here?”
John: “Why, yes.”
Joe: “And are you and all of the other managers always on time or under budget with your projects?”
John: “Not always, Joe.”
Joe: “Some of the benefits of my offerings are that they can save clients time and money. What would it do to your image, John, if at the next VP meeting, you were able to report that your projects are ahead of schedule and/or under budget – because you were using my offerings?”
John wasted no time in his response, “Let’s work up the agreement now, Joe.”
TRUE STORY.
Listening is based upon 3 things:
- Asking the client about his/her issue
- Understanding the issues – may require asking some more
- Confirming your understanding – may also require asking some more
(Zig Ziglar: “Selling is simple. It’s not easy, but it is simple.”)
Once these 3 things are fully satisfied, you may proceed with (successfully) closing the sale.
Next
issue:
Be on the lookout for next issue of “Roadmap …” where the true story will be: “Customer Service as a Differentiator.” Until
then, Good Selling!!
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